Let's play ... Master and Servant
Forgive me for posting another video online, but I can't get this song out of my head. You see, Fetish Con 2008 was just here in Tampa Bay over the weekend, and if Depeche Mode's "Master and Servant" isn't that convention's theme song, it damn well should be.
The annual trade show for the whips-and-chains crowd attracts thousands of kinksters every year with seminars titled "Pain for Pleasure," "Polyanarchy: Power Exchange
in a Multi-Partnered Relationship" and "Wax Play: Hot Fun For Everyone." There even was a B&D wedding!
And of course, we have all the photos online at tampabay.com to chronicle the weekend. Click here to view there. I'm fairly sure they're safe for work.
Final parting thought: Is "Master and Servant" the ultimate song for the fetish scene? What about "Slave to Love" by Bryan Ferry? "Violent Love" by Oingo Boingo? Or even "Erotica" by Madonna? What obvious songs are we forgetting?


Relive the music, movies and culture of the greatest decade ever with Times online editor Steve Spears. A teen during the decade, Steve is obsessed with everything from Duran Duran to Journey, John Hughes to John Cusack, and parachute pants to Reaganomics.
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Seriously? No one thought of Erasure's "Chains of Love"? Really?
:)
Posted by: | August 27, 2008 at 07:53 AM
Rarely does a movie have such yin and yang as "Exit to Eden."
I still can't fathom why they tried to make it a comedy in parts, and keep to the spirit of the book in other parts.
I'd seriously crawl through broken glass to hang out with Dana Delaney though.
Posted by: Spears | August 19, 2008 at 01:22 AM
Spearsy,
Slave to Love is also featured in Dana Delaney's bondage flic Exit to Eden that you talked about on this weeks podcast.
Beware the Rosie O'D scene in leather S&M gear or her pole dance scene. Thank goodness for FFWD.
Posted by: billyshakes | August 19, 2008 at 01:07 AM
yes sparky, i have heard about chickenfoot. just hope this one pans out, and they change that horrible name. i wish the planet us project wouldve worked out. it looks like ill be seeing him in new orleans in nov. lets see, 5 times with vh, 11 times with the wabos, including once at the mecca, cabo.
Posted by: CHAD | August 19, 2008 at 01:02 AM
The Go-Go's - Fun With Ropes
Posted by: | August 18, 2008 at 11:42 PM
Sorry Chad. Mind is in the gutter. It's Chickenfoot.
Posted by: sparky | August 18, 2008 at 07:55 PM
Chad, big Redhead here. 2 Van Hagar shows and 3 REdrocker & the Wabos. I think last tour was my favorite. 1st half Wabos 2nd half The Other Half.
Have you heard about the new side project. Last I heard they were calling it Chickenhead.
Posted by: sparky | August 18, 2008 at 07:44 PM
Blogmaster Spears,
Baby did a bad, bad thing.
Posted by: Asylum Street Spankers | August 18, 2008 at 07:00 PM
Black and Blue by Van Halen
Posted by: Lisette M. | August 18, 2008 at 05:57 PM
Any song by Air Supply. Because if that arouses you, you're truly twisted.
Posted by: Clark | August 18, 2008 at 05:32 PM
sparky, i take it you are a sammy fan. nice to see im not the only redhead in here. if youre a fan, youll know im not talking bout the color of my hair. to add to your sammy list, how bout, rise of the animal.
Posted by: CHAD | August 18, 2008 at 04:10 PM
Sex Dwarf - Soft Cell
Posted by: Brad | August 18, 2008 at 03:59 PM
WHERE'S SEAN TODAY?
Posted by: Sean Daly Fan Club | August 18, 2008 at 03:51 PM
Human Bondage Den - Adam Ant
Mondo Bondage - The Tubes (okay, it's from the 70s)
Warm Leatherette -The Normal
Spank It - Timezone (feat. Afrika Bambaataa)
Tie Me Up - Johnny Thunders
Posted by: Bassnote | August 18, 2008 at 03:31 PM
Also "Head like a Hole" by Nine Inch Nails (1989):
Bow down before the one you serve.
You're going to get what you deserve.
Plus, it's Nine Inch Nails.
Posted by: Jeff from Vegas | August 18, 2008 at 03:04 PM
George Michael's "Father Figure" has kind of a creepy vibe.
Posted by: Michelle | August 18, 2008 at 02:43 PM
"Hurt So Good" - John Cougar Mellencamp
Posted by: Jeff from Vegas | August 18, 2008 at 02:27 PM
its "house of SHAME"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7fdc-31KlfA
house of pain was a band...
sorry...
Posted by: surfdog | August 18, 2008 at 02:27 PM
Actually, the thought of pork makes me want to hurl. And over the weekend, a friend made a bunch of taco meat for a guy's night of movies and booze. That didn't go down well either.
My big obstacle will forgoing Chik-Fil-A.
Posted by: Spears | August 18, 2008 at 02:23 PM
"House of Pain"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYDPlhqa-tU
or anything by the GENITORTURERS
hey spearsy
you gonna interview GEN?
http://www.genitorturers.com/home.html
Posted by: surfdog | August 18, 2008 at 02:22 PM
BTW Steve-o, I agree, the version of Violent Love is better on Boingo Alive! The anithesis of this of course would be the Boingo song, Not My Slave.
Congrats on the vegetarian thing. Mark my words, though, one whiff of smoked pork products, and you'll be back my friend.
Snap Into A Slim Jim!
--Doug
Posted by: Douglas Arthur | August 18, 2008 at 02:14 PM
##### ALERT #####
BKs on Letterman tonite!
Repeat from 7/24
Look At Them (When They Rock Wichoo)
Posted by: Black Kids Fan Club | August 18, 2008 at 02:13 PM
Not really 80's, but Roxy Music's classic "In Every Dreamhome A Heartache" has some appropriate fetish content. Seek it out...it has a twist ending that will "blow you mind" :) I guess if we included the live version from 1990's "Heart Still Beating" album which was recorded in 1982 at Frejus we might be able to make it work. Interesting footnote is that King Crimson opened that show, and released a video of that performance (titled, "The Noise"). The cameras were already there to record Roxy, and since KC was a label-mate on EG records at the time, they asked to have their show filmed as well. Not sure if the Roxy show ever got released.
damn, I went and babbled "epic" again. Sorry folks. :)
Posted by: Douglas Arthur | August 18, 2008 at 02:11 PM
In addition to Lick the Tip by Backseat Driver,
Other good ones are:
Lickapella-Karen Finley
Yodeling in the Valley-Kid Rock
Love Button-Barnes & Barnes
It's Tight Like That-Tampa Red's Hokum Jug Band
Bump & Grind-Wendy O.
Pasties & a G~String-Tom Waits
It Ain't The Meat it's the Motion-The Swallows
Posted by: joe | August 18, 2008 at 02:07 PM
Sammy Hagar has a bunch:
Love or Money
Hands and Knees
Back Into You
Three Lock Box
Deeper Kinda Love
Why Can't This Be Love
Right Now
Would You Do It for Free?
Don't Fight It (Feel It)
I'll Fall in Love Again
Surrender
Little Bit More
Protection
Call My Name
You're Love is Driving Me Crazy
Two Sides of Love
The Girl Gets Around
Remote Love
I Don't Need Love
Is Dustin "Screech" Diamond going to be at the festivities?
Posted by: sparky | August 18, 2008 at 02:01 PM
I forgot how clumsy the studio version on "Violent Love" is until I watched the youtube clip again.
Trust me, the live version off Boingo Alive is much, much better.
Posted by: Spears | August 18, 2008 at 01:57 PM
Jo's favorite is:
Love Slave by The Screamin Sirens
Joe's favorite is:
Lick The Tip
Posted by: jo & joe | August 18, 2008 at 01:51 PM
Whip It - Devo
Posted by: | August 18, 2008 at 01:45 PM