Cache cocktail dress: To splurge or not to splurge?
A handful of years back, I fell in love with a strapless gold cocktail dress at Cache... I mean, LOVE. Like, leave-your-husband kind of love. I must have tried it on four times. But it was $175, and I was in my college phase of POOR and DESTITUTE, an era when I once wrote a CHECK for a WALMART gift card, then filled up at the WALMART gas station using the GIFT CARD, knowing the CHECK would FLOAT until PAY DAY.
Yeah, that sucked. Anyway, no money, no dress. I still lament it sometimes. I wish I had just, like, sold my brother or something to get it. It was so perfect.
These days, though definitely not wealthy and still proficient at "creative banking," I'm gainfully employed and tuition free. I'm also attending a glam wedding in Washington D.C. on July 4, and I've been thinking I might have to head back to Cache. Yes, it's a little Cougar Town. And yes, they recently had a one piece purple jumpsuit on display in the window at the Countryside store. I die.
But they have some fierce evening gowns, beaded and shiny and springy and slinky. Mostly, I think I just owe myself a belated expensive cocktail dress as a reward for putting myself through college and eating all that pasta.
I popped on the website for a preview, and was pleased to see a selection of dresses that won't play my wallet for a total fool. Here's a cute one for less than $70. This one's completely hot for $90.
Should I do it? Or should I stick to my Forever 21 instincts? Or should I go to an independent boutique? Or do you think the gold dress still exists somewhere? All these questions...
~ Deal Diva Stephanie
Photo: cache.com, beaded shoulder dress, $198.... uggggh.


Stephanie Hayes came out of the womb wearing high heels. While other kids were reciting multiplication tables, she was learning to calculate an extra third off the half-price discount during buy-one-get-one week. She loves animal prints, black mascara and anything that sparkles. She objects to visible panty lines, Crocs and anything that costs more than a car payment. And she doesn't drive a nice car. She can be reached at (727) 893-8857 or
Since she was a little girl Nicole Hutcheson dreamed of dressing like a Vogue cover girl. But her reality was more JCPenney catalog. The fact only honed her better ability to find luxury for less. Always on the hunt for markdowns on designer labels, this Deal Diva’s weaknesses are good jeans and killer heels. She can be reached at (727) 893-8828 or
Colleen Jenkins learned two invaluable shopping tenets from her mom: 1. Buy quality. 2. Get it on sale. Then she added one of her own: Accessorize, accessorize, accessorize! This Deal Diva’s idea of a blissful Saturday includes a trip to the Ellenton outlet mall. She loves mixing classic with trendy and cheap Target accessories with her markdown Banana Republic duds. She can be reached at (813) 226-3337 or
A disciple of the little black dress classics school, Letitia Stein stretches her budget by looking for styles with staying power. She lives for 80 percent off shoes at DSW, floral sundresses and bohemian chic tops. She confesses to being a bit of a snob when it comes to handbags and jewelry. She can be reached at (813) 226-3400 or
Thanks, Jackie! What a great knockoff. All praise to Herve Leger for the bandage dress.
Posted by: Stephanie Hayes | May 29, 2009 at 10:01 PM
cougar town, indeed
Posted by: dan | May 29, 2009 at 07:17 PM
I say splurge because you can afford it. If you decide you can't, this dress at Charlotte Russe is a sexier version of the first dress (and for $27). http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3573193
Posted by: Jackie | May 29, 2009 at 04:31 PM
Do it! Or, you can always wait until it goes on sale - but then there's no guarantee it'll still be there. I got lucky once, found a dres I LOVED for $200 (at Cache, too) and waited. It paid off - got the dress for $50 a few weeks later!!! Yeah, I was pretty much beside myself. But that's like winning the lottery - it never happens. Just do it do it!!
Posted by: USFBullsBabe | May 29, 2009 at 10:14 AM
Make an investment for a big event. I like the blue one better than the bubble dress. Before you drop major coin, perhaps you could try the back room at Loehmann's? Or, check ebay to see if any of those surplus stores just happen to have what you want at a better price. Shopittome.com could be helpful, too.
Posted by: illiterategirl | May 29, 2009 at 09:23 AM
You only live once!
Posted by: SPLURGE! | May 29, 2009 at 07:13 AM
Lace bubble dress!! Definitely splurge. I know I always feel better in my $140 dress from Banana Republic (that was on sale for $80) than I do in my $15 dress from Ross.
Posted by: Molly | May 29, 2009 at 06:26 AM