Inquiring minds ...

Two of our faithful readers asked questions in the comments section to yesterday's post. I didn't want them to get lost in the shuffle, so I'm posting them here for all to see.

The first is from Cindy, who asked if anyone is watching episodes of "Generation Kill" on HBO.

Cindy says: "My husband and I have caught most of them and I was just wondering if the portrayal was accurate... If so, then I am surprised we still have people who WANT to be in the miltary..."

Interesting observation, Cindy. I haven't personally seen the show.

The second is from Savannah Smiles, who writes:

"Recently while at the airport, I noticed an Army man waiting for his plane. I talked with him briefly, and found out he was on his way to Iraq. Of course, I thanked him for his service, but I also wanted to give him some money for a lunch or dinner (he had to wait several hours), as an extra show of appreciation from a civie to a service member. Would that have been out of line? Would that be offensive in any way? What are some of the guidelines for showing appreciation, if any?"

We partially addressed this in a previous post, too. Click here to read it.

In general, I'd advise against handing over money for a meal, Cindy. Discreetly paying a servicemember's check after they've ordered is probably a better tactic.

But it's always - ALWAYS - OK to say thanks!

Comments

[liberal army wife]

If you can quietly pay for a servicemember's meal or cup of coffee whilst in the airport great. but handing him/her money? no. Not cool.

LAW

[Jan Wesner]

I wrote a post last year about a soldier who had his meal paid for in a local Cracker Barrel. After his bill was paid, another patron also asked the waitress if he could pick up the tab. Since it had already been done, that customer bought the soldier a gift card. The customer left, and asked the waitress to give the soldier the card.

I THANK all of you who express your appreciation. It's great that so many of you want to do it. Thanks for the thought, Cindy!